All the mammas that I talk to, have one thing in common: they want to stop struggling in parenting, while doing the best that they can - coupled with the desire to raise children who are happy well adjusted. We all want to do the best that we can, and be available to meet our children's needs, but also learn how to react to our challenges in a way that teaches them self sufficiency and confidence to grow as a human beings (while learning how to react in a way that will help their children, and not push them away).
The problem is that so many of us feel like we are reaching, and coming back empty handed - we feel lost and confused with every step that we take (because we have not been given the tools to navigate our relationships with them, in connected ways)...but what if I told you that there was a way that you can side-step all of the ifs and whats, and get directly to the core of where you are going? What if I told you that there was a way for you to actually bypass all of the questions and get right into the purpose and work on that?
When my kids were small (I had 4 under 4), I remember that there was a point in the journey where all I did was analyze. I analyzed every part and thread of everything that was happening in my life, and in theirs. I got to the point that I started to connect the dots in our lives, and understand that everything that I was doing, all of their reactions and behaviors (appropriate age development stuff aside), and the everyday things that we were living and experiencing, were all part of something greater - and all were part of an undoing or redefining life for us, according to each other. I understood that my reactions to typical things created patterns that were defined by what I was viewing, and that this definition could either set us free from old behaviors, or could keep up stuck and locked into what I knew before (creating the things that I wanted to stop) - and this individual journey with each child, helped me learn to start to understand our lives - and myself - in another way. I began to understand that there were reasons for some of the things that were happening grater than what I was viewing in the moment, and made a choice to start to look for the purpose and to line up with that - what I found was that this was the key to my parenting woes. Learning to understand the purpose and our journey.
This right here is part of why you're here - to understand your soul journey and purpose with your child and to grow together. I have spoken to a countless amount of moms who input peaceful parenting and gentle methods only to feel frustrated and depleted, because they feel as if they are not doing something right - when the truth may be something completely different. They might be working on energies of things that need more than a method...and this is where I come in...my purpose is to help you understand your Soul Journey so that you can understand how to parent the child that YOU have - and understand the reasons why you are having certain challenges, and helping you to line up with the actions that will lead you both, to your highest good.
My purpose (aside from personal spiritual reason with my children), is to help mammas, understand and line up their soul journey's with their children:
- their soul contracts
- the work that they are doing together
- the old stories that they are leaving behind
- the family patterns that they are each here to do
- the energies that they are each here to balance for one another...
and learn how to put the action behind what they find, so that they can line up with what they are here to create.
You see, we each have an individual path, and our children come with theirs as well, and these paths are intertwined, together. We are here to uncover various parts of the tapestry that makes up our lives, leave behind habits that no longer work, and move into a life that is full of love - the problem is that sometimes, all of the supposed too's get in the way, and they clutter up what we think and we end up struggling and repeating patters. But it does not have to be that way. You can understand what is needed from you, what your purpose is, and move into that. You can stop struggling, although we will always face challenges in parenting (it's part of the contract), we can stop struggling and start moving into connection naturally - through awakening your grand design and learning how to flow into it.
Do you want to learn about your soul journey, understand your purpose and line up with it, so that you can put in the action steps behind it, and flow into the natural connection and flow of your relationship? You can book a time to talk to me here - you don't have to do this alone, or feel like a failure. I promise, there is a purpose - and it's all part of the divine tapestry of life...let's tap you in and get you into the flow - so that you can be the mamma that you know you are in your heart.